Let me guess – either you have noticed that the spark in your relationship has burned down or you are looking for guidance on how to impress your partner during your nighttime activities. Whatever the reason, you are interested in gaining the knowledge on how to keep your encounters steamy and electrifying, and what’s most important, satisfying for both sides. Have no fear, because in this article you’ll learn everything you need to know about the intricate art of seducing your partner.
Prepare the place and choose the right timing
Let’s be honest, life is not a romantic comedy, where anywhere and at any time you AND your partner are going to feel ready for a rendezvous. That being said, you need to make sure your partner has an opportunity (and a possibility!) to get in the right zone for some lovin’. To excite them, first of all, arrange the place for the activities to be private and free of any disturbances, like children running around the house or roommates popping in to say hello. Second of all – choose the timing that won’t interfere with your partner’s day, so avoid late nights after exhausting workdays or don’t make them choose between you and being late for their obligations.
Build up the tension
Say, you have managed to prepare your setting correctly and both of you have plenty of time and energy to indulge in some intimacy. Great, now – don’t rush it. Everyone knows that having a quickie once in a while is a great way to keep the flare up, yet this shouldn’t be your first and only method to assure your sexual life is on the right track. Take your time and while you’re at it, talk to your partner about light, pleasant topics while slowly exploring their body. When things start to get heated – retreat, keeping your partner aroused and on the edge. Both of you know where this situation is going, but your partner doesn’t know any specifics which are in your control, so as much as it’s a sensual play, it’s also a mind game. Choose your moves smart.
Use extra resources
Sometimes, despite the best intentions, the two of you may need a little bit of help to get in the mood. As you may know, there is plenty of ways to spice up things in the bedroom – toys, role plays, practicing kinks. Those need some more commitment though, so you may want to choose a smoother method, which is… porn. Seriously! Who said that porn is only for solo nights? On the Internet, you’ll find plenty of free porn videos, all types, and categories. Pick up the one that will please you and your partner (maybe it will be something you haven’t tried yet? You will read about it in a moment), then just wait for the excitement to grow and spread within your bodies.
Don’t be afraid to try something new
After finding the positions and accessories that suit you, it’s easy to fall into the trap of your comfort zone. Don’t get me wrong – everyone needs one, but it’s also important to step out of it once in a while, especially if it’s something your partner finds thrilling (and that’s your goal, remember?). It may be as simple as trying out a different tempo or an angle, a new scenario, or include new toys. Maybe you want to take it to the whole another level – start fulfilling their kinks or even include other people? Whatever consensual decision you’ll make, should bring both of you new and exhilarating experiences.
Ask your partner!
Just so you’re aware, it doesn’t have to be a secret that you want to know how to excite your partner – it shows your great consideration for their needs and that you care about their sexual pleasure (which can be arousing for your partner in itself). Instead of searching through a multitude of guidelines, ask your partner what makes them tick and their toes curl. You’ll not only find the solution for your inquires firsthand but also straighten your relationship
